First Dates

...are AWKWARD!
Last week I went on a date with a guy. We had just met and didn't know each other so we kept it low key. I met him for frozen yogurt. He paid. We ate our yogurt and talked and decided when yogurt was done to continue the date by hanging out and talking for a few hours. It was nice. Nothing fancy or expensive. He didn't try to impress me, and that's ok because first dates can be awkward since you're just getting to know each other.
I've got another date with a different man tonight. He wants to pick me up at my place. I'm not so sure how I feel about that. I don't even know this guys last name. Then he wants to take me to a FANCY restaurant at the new M Resort. I checked this place out on line. I've gotta get dressed up and I have no doubt the bill for just dinner will be pushing $200. Yikes! Sounds nice right? WRONG! Now there's all this pressure! A first date is already going to be a little weird, but now I feel all nervous and self conscious. What if I'm not dressed properly or don't act the "right way" (whatever that is). This guy is several (10) yrs older than me so I'm already feeling a little intimidated.
Friend have said that's the difference between dating someone your age and someone a little more mature, but I am thinking (and this is before "fancy date") that I like the cheap, low key, no pressure sort of first date.
What do you think?